how to parent adhd
...without losing your mind!
"Positive Parenting Solutions"
don't work with ADHD kids!
I will teach you why & what to do instead!
an on-demand program to quickly & effectively
(& with a little laughter)
get back to calm, happy parenting !!
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5 STEPS. QUICK VIDEOS.
happier kids. happier you.
To the burnt-out, frustrated parent of a child with ADHD,
This is freaking exhausting!
Your kid is creative, funny, energetic and probably adorable. But they're also impossible, defiant, never listen, forgetful, messy, noisy, meltdown at the drop of a hat, maybe a picky eater, bad sleeper and maybe not always nice to their siblings.
Why won't they just listen? You know they have ADHD, but still...
There has to be a way to get this kid to do things, to listen, to sit down, to just, for-the-love-of-Pete, do what you ask the first time!
You've tried all the things. The sticker charts that worked for a day. The threats. You've taken away screentime, toys, done the time-outs.
Nothing seems to work.
You see your friends' kids. So freakishly well-behaved. You know their moms are looking at you. You feel judged by the teachers. The shoppers who roll their eyes at your kid's tantrum in the grocery store. You're trying. So hard.
And you have a secret. Sometimes, you don't really like parenting. Don't really like your own kid. And you feel really, really awful about that. You love them, of course. But you wished you also liked them.
I get it.
I know what you're going through.
I raised three challenging, tear-your-hair-out ADHD kids myself and lived to tell the tale. I'm ecstatic (and kind of shocked, to be honest) to report they are not only now calm, fully-functioning adults, but also--I like them! A lot!
But I'm not just another parent turned parenting coach.
I'm a licensed psychotherapist who specializes in ADHD. All I do, all day long, is help parents like you.
I've written 5 books on the topic of ADHD. I'm a senior contributor to ADDitude Magazine, I've been featured on tons of ADHD podcasts, quoted in places like the Washington Post, I teach psychology at the graduate level.
I have buckets of clinical experience but I have lived your life, too. I know my stuff. And I know how hard your stuff is.
In quick videos, you'll get all the juicy tips and tricks you need to help your ADHD child behave better and actually like them more.
Think of it as your own personal ADHD parent boot camp, but with less yelling and more laughter (and less stress on your bank account). You'll get practical advice you can use right away to see immediate change.
So, stop pulling your hair out and start enjoying a more peaceful, loving relationship with your ADHD child.
Order "How To Parent Your ADHD Child Without Losing Your Mind" now.
And, if I don't help you, I'll refund your $$.
You literally have nothing to lose--especially your mind!!
JUST 5 STEPS...
to peaceful parenting.
Stop the endless power struggle and become a "defiant child tamer" with simple techniques that will leave you feeling like a calm parenting ninja!
to get back the joy
No more yelling, no more time-outs, no more feeling like all is lost and chaos reins. You'll have ways to prevent the defiance from happening in the first place!
to see the behavior you want
Turn your child's NO into a YES without threats, negiotiation or hard to manage reward charts!
in short (sometimes funny) videos!
Each 15 minutes is packed with tips to into place immediately. Sign up now and get ready for your child, and your family dynamic, to transform!
Literally crying right now, feeling so heard, understood & related to...being diagnosed w/ ADHD as an adult & now trying to raise my own ADHD kids, I'm just trying to do right by them & myself and this training is SO AMAZING!
C.M.
Parent
This was by far the most helpful and insightful training I've ever watched on ADHD. I can't recommend this enough!
B.K.
Mom of 2
WHAT YOU GET:
Orient Your Way
Here we'll discuss how to be a more mindful parent, which is key to parenting these kiddos. Don't worry, I'm not going to ask you to meditate! But, get ready to have your mind fully blown! (See what I did there? I write kids' books, so unfortunately you can expect some mediocre humor)
Step 1
Getting It
Understanding the brain science behind ADHD can give you that dose of compassion in the hardest of moments. We'll discuss medication and how to talk to your kids about their diagnosis.
Step 2
A Return to Sanity
Here you'll shape your new path. What kind of parent do you want to be? We'll explore mindful communication, how to be PRO-active instead of RE-active and be your child's behavior detective instead of their judge.
Step 3
Management of
(exhausting, tear-your-hair-out)
Behavior
We'll dive into the meat of the course here with the Magic System for Better Behavior, discipline, lying, tantrums, and more! No reward charts involved!
Step 4
Home is Where
Mistakes
Happen
The messy room. Overdue homework . Won't brush his teeth. Always late. How do you become your child's ally instead of their adversary, when nothing ever gets done? We'll talk self-esteem, preventing your child from identifying as the "bad seed" and how to find the good on a laundry list of mistakes.
Step 5
Staying
on
Track
Now that you've found a better path, let's keep you there! Learn to put your oxygen mask on first & understand when to let go of the reins so your child can do for themselves.
It's time to change the dynamic!!
Take the first step toward the parent-child relationship you want.
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But wait! You also get...
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Simply email me your address & choice of book to merriam@focalpointfamily.com
*see book descriptions below
Nice to meet you!
I'm Merriam Sarcia Saunders, LMFT.
Here I am with my oldest, at her graduation from University of the Pacific, where she was 2nd in her class. With ADHD & dyslexia, you probably know what a big deal this accomplishment is! At age 12, she still could not read! Our relationship was tough. Her ADHD made life challenging--and I had no idea what I was doing. Until my AH-HAH!! moment that changed everything for us.
You probably are how I was then - stressed, exhausted and frustrated.
You can be like I am now.
Relaxed. Happy. PROUD.
What are you waiting for?
Breathe. It really can get better.
TROUBLE WITH A TINY T: novel, ages 8-12. About a boy with ADHD who finds magic and by accident creates a tiny T.rex in his bedroom that is growing.
MY WANDERING, DREAMING MIND: picture book, ages 3-8. Sadie's wandering mind leaves her feeling badly about herself, until she and her parents find an empowering way to look at her amazing mind.
MY WHIRLING, TWIRLING MOTOR: picture book, ages 3-8. Charlie's ADHD gets him in trouble all day. But Mom has a surprise for him at bedtime that will have them both looking at Charlie in a new light.
MINDFULNESS MEDITAITONS FOR ADHD: adult, nonfiction. Yes, YOU can practice mindfulness to help your ADHD. 100 simple and effective mindfulness exercises to target executive functioning, calm and emotional regulation.
DIVORCE & the ADHD, AUTISTIC, ANXIOUS CHILD: adult, nonficiton. If you are divorcing with a neurodivergent child, this book gives you the ultimate blueprint for a parenting plan that keeps your child's unique needs in the forefront of the discussion.
